Few days ago while I was on my way to office at morning I saw
a roadside fight. A middle aged suited booted person driving his Air
Conditioned Honda City was having a heated conversation with an old age cab driver;
the ironing of his clothes was seriously deteriorated. Apparently as per our
observation, it was the suited booted Uncle who was at fault as he tried to take
a sharp turn without giving an indication. By the looks he appeared to be well
educated but the same could not be said once you have heard him talk to that
cab driver. Even though he was at fault he did not accept his mistake and kept
blaming and abusing the cab driver of rash and silly driving, even though had
cab driver not put the brakes at the right time, we might had to witness some
collateral damage as well. Contrary to that suited booted person, the cab
driver although being older than him, tried to talk calmly and he still
remained in his senses but once the threshold of patience was breached, he
started shouting as well. However, I noticed a huge difference among both.
The cab driver remained quite courteous and respectful so
that this issue could end as soon as possible. On the other hand that educated
Uncle used every possible harsh word that could come in one’s mind. When he
realized it is not making any impact on taxi driver, he became a bit personal.
I still remember his last lines were something like that
“Na driving krni aati hai na hi seedhay mou baat kr sknay ki koi tameez
hai, pta nai kahan sy aa jatay hain ye ghreeb jahil log apni khatara le kar”.
Having said so, that person got back into his car and drove
away. The cab driver also had to reach somewhere so he went away as well but
not before feeling the heat and ultimate sarcastic statement from one of those ‘civilized’
who proudly call themselves the face of true Pakistan. For moment or so I was
left pondering, who was better among these two, an educated or an uneducated?
Yes, you read that right. I won’t say a person educated if
he/she doesn’t know how to talk in public to the public and poor. Yes, he might
be called literate on technical terms but he has no manners what so ever to
even admit his fault, (apologizing to the mistake comes many folds after). He
didn’t do the act which you should expect from an educated person. What’s the
point of wearing a branded 2 piece suit with expensive shoes and watch, driving
an AC car if your tongue is not in your control? I would be calling such a
person as uneducated. A person who can’t any good to others but for himself
only is of no use. On the other hand, that taxi driver despite having no knowledge
still had manners to talk and respect. If you had seen that incident you could
easily declare the uneducated a better person in comparison. At least such a
person can win others hearts and earn their favor just by talking politely and
following the manners.
This is just an example of what we have become these days. I
can give you hundreds of examples where the same natured incidents happen in
daily life. Our society is investing and wasting a lot of money to go to
internationally recognized institutions and earn the highly qualified degrees.
But, these degrees will only make you literate. What makes you educated is the
way you were raised and trained in your family. The moment you start talking,
you leave the everlasting impact on the observer/reader and if you left a bad
impression, that couldn’t be covered up with such degrees, lavish dressing and
personal transport. If you claim to be a successful person with such credentials
then Let Me Say I am sorry, you are far away from being successful, a
blacksmith, cobbler, barber, driver, peon, sweeper, guard who could speak with
dignity and show polite nature and all the manners is much more educated to you
because he did not forget the basic lessons.
You have all the rights to disagree to me Let Me Say that I would
prefer uneducated over such educated in our society, because what our society
badly needs is the tolerance, patience, respect for others attitude. I agree
that not all the educated had lost manners but there is still a big ratio of
such people who are also holding important positions within and out of government,
ruling us all. What if you admit your mistake rather blaming it on the poor and
weaker one, it will make you a great person in true senses.